Be The Kind Of Parent
You Were Destined To Be
1
Trust
Create a relationship with your children based on trust, connection and, collaboration
2
Harmony
Experience peace, harmony and mutual understanding with your children
3
Healing
Heal the wounds of your childhood, to break generational patterns
Parenting a child does not come with a handbook…
And without conscious effort, our parenting methods can create conflict instead of connection. The ‘Power Over’ parenting that has been imbibed in most of us, creates conflict, frustration, and endless power struggles that leave us with broken and distant relationships with our child(ren).
Allan Schore said it best in his famous quote, “Parenting well does not come naturally. What comes naturally is parenting the way we were parented.” This could lead to a repetition of generational patterns without conscious effort and proper parent coaching.
It’s Never Too Late to Turn Things Around
No matter what your relationship with your child(ren) looks like right now, there is hope. Depending on where things are, it can be hard to believe there is truly another way. But I promise you there is.
Without that parenting handbook, navigating the daily struggles can be challenging. We create plans, try to be the parents we desire to be, and watch as our idealistic imaginings get run over by the reality of daily life and the immense pressures of caring for our child(ren).
Hello! I'm Chika Kingo-Okafor
I became a parenting coach because I was completely committed to breaking generational patterns by having a relationship with my children that is based on unconditional love, trust, connection, and collaboration.
Once I understood how possible it was to build a relationship with my children based on mutual trust, understanding, and care. I became deeply passionate about supporting other parents in this life-changing work.
I believe all children deserve to be guided and loved by the best version each of us has to offer them, as parents.
I know you desire to be a loving and peaceful parent that has a meaningful connected relationship with your children. In order to do that you need to find a way to reimagine and reestablish a different kind of relationship with your kids.
The traditional ‘POWER-OVER’ model of parenting does not work
Which makes you feel like you’re going to spend the rest of your life struggling with your children and continue to feel like you’re just not doing a good job as a parent.
I believe that the real issue is that we’re not taught how to be the kind of parents most of us long to be so we end up slipping into the patterns that were ingrained in us in our own childhoods.
I understand how hard it is to ask for help as a parent. This is why when you contact me, you will be met with empathy, understanding, in a non-judgemental and supportive space, along with a personalized, and effective plan customized by me to guide you through every step of your parenting journey.
How It Works:
When you book a call with me, we’ll sit down together and talk so I can get a sense of what’s going on for you and your family and where I can offer support.
I’ll explain my approach and the options we have for working together. You can ask any questions you have and see what type of support would be the best fit for your life and schedule.
If it feels right to you, we can book our first session and get started. If it’s not a good fit, I will do my best to offer alternative resources or suggestions for support, wherever possible. There’s no pressure of any kind, simply an opportunity to see if we are a good fit to work together.
Let's Talk!
Set up a time for us to meet, so that you can stop blaming yourself. And instead take the first step towards becoming the kind of parent you know you can be.
Ready to shift your experience of parenting to peace, harmony and connection?
